Sunrise
Isnt the pic above just looks so pretty and peaceful?
I took this pic during the trip to desaru with my sis's family and kel. Woke up early and decided to go to the beach with the kids which is just outside our hotel room. I was enjoying the views, wind and the peacefulness, infact everything, I felt at peace at that very moment.
I suppose this kind of moment should be spend with the one you love but nope Kel wasnt beside me at that moment cos he was asleep in the room. Sad right, but I suppose there's nothing much I can do. To him sleeping is just so impt than any other things. I dont thinkI be able to share a moment like this with him, which of course I hope I be able to. Ya I know not that possible so let it be then.
The winds was so relaxing that I felt so good and refreshing. I really envy those couples around ya in each other arms watching the sunrise very much. Sometimes, I just think Kel dont tresure this kind of special moment much when he can. Will he regret if there isnt any chance anymore with me? Maybe one of these days I be gone from his life like accident or sickness, will he ever look back and regret that he didnt have any memories of special moment together? Dont think so, cos he says one must look to the future and not look back.
Proposal Before or After
Seriously when come to the topic of proposal I get kind of tired and disappointed.
So what is proposal suppose to mean when a couple already applied for a flat together. I think it doesnt has any meaning or makes any sense anymore. Since the girl already applied a flat with the partner, why still bothers to propose? When the only choice is to says YES. Else says NO and revoke the flat application?
To me lah personally, proposal should and have to come before applying for a flat if the guy is really sincere in proposing to the ger and not just for the sake that the ger says "you need to propose to me". How sincere can the guy be seriously I dont know. I just know I have go thru disappointment after disappointment during our 6th Anniversary and my birthday.
Maybe he just doesnt want to propose at all, wait till I just give in to him to just go HDB apply for flat. To me, I just feel he feel so mafan in proposing to me. Thats sad right? Ya I am sad as a matter of fact in this.
蔷蔷
Last night heard the song by SHE member Ella in memory of her doggie. Suddenly think of Yoko.....
还记得你喜欢咬著我的手
然后给我你嘴里的球
要我陪你玩丢丢
你喜欢我摸摸你的小耳朵
窝在我的身旁
没有烦忧
在梦里遨游
好狗狗 好狗狗
谢谢你陪妈咪这么久
你并没有离开我
只搬到天堂生活
蔷蔷你要记得我
你不要走丢
快快找到天使
在天堂给我（们）保佑
蔷蔷不要忘了我
还有亲爱的阿姨叔叔和你的朋友
你永远活在记忆中
Conversation
Had a sms conversation with Kel this morning when he msg me good morning. Was feeling kind of depress and I dont even know why but when I saw morning greeting msg I got slightly happy. Anyway back to the conversation I was talking about.
Kel: Good Morning Deer DeerTri: Haa who is DeerKel: U lorTri: Pig U will luv me forever till I old and uglyKel: Will, when pig dont die 1st lorTri: Will, when pig dont die 1st lor <-- that means if you dont die first?Kel: Die le how to luv you, must stay alive and luv U maTri: Die le also must luv b it afterlife or next life if there is one. N U cant die b4 me unless U bring me with you when U die else U die after me..Still somemore but the rest not impt....
The impt thing is I was touched by him when he says the words I highlighted in red. Not sure why but my tears just flow down when I saw that short sentence.
Women are just strange animals, a tiny little thing would touch her heart so much.
Priceless
Yesterday was talking to Sharon in MSN on some topics......and found that I really like this 3 sentence she was saying.....Business Trip for Two........Free of ChargeCelestial Ring from GoldHeart......$880Proposal in Japan..............PRICELESSI especially like the last sentence which I highlighted :) Wow romantic and envy leh..... I would be so happy that my guy propose.....says words that makes me touch.....wow imagine if there are ppl around u, u be the envy of everyone leh....whenever u get a chance to be the envy of all ppl....Sad thing is I dont think Kel would do this lor, cos he says mah: "A proposal is personal, should be just 2 persons, u n me will do." Let me be the envy of everyone for just that short moment, cannot meh?Anyway dont even think he would propose lor.....all he knows is: "Oei when want to go to HDB?" <-----sianz x infininty :(
Pretty Flowers
Saw the above at one of the florist's website. Isnt the flowers just pretty, the basket contains 99 stalked of flowers. I think it be prefect if there's a ring inside.......
The Storybook Princess
I did this simple quiz and viola......that is what I am actually dreaming of my wedding....
Your bridal personality is...
The Storybook PrincessAn old-fashioned girl at heart, you want your special day to be steeped in elegance and tradition. You love the thought of transforming yourself into a timeless bride Grace Kelly or Princess Di. You'll feel equally regal in a gown with a full tulle skirt or long, flowing train and a beaded corset top. And don't skip on any of the trimmings; go for the veil, tiara and gloves. As for your shoes, a sleek satin heel with a pointed toe is the perfect footwear for your stroll down the aisle. To complete your blushing bride look,
keep your makeup soft and dewy. Use a light foundation and
cream blush in a warm rose color that compliments
your complexion, keep your eyes soft and natural by using shadows in warm natural shades and polish off your pucker with a sheer lipstick in a soft red.
Time For A Boost
Did a quiz online, even a little simple quiz shows that its time for a BOOST!!!
Time For A BoostIt's time to examine his behavior more closely. It doesn't mean you've fallen out of love, but the sparks have definitely died down for at least one of you. There may be things going on under the surface; routine has replaced conscious acts of kindness, respect and love. Or maybe he's simply gotten too absorbed in his own life and forgotten about the "we." Try talking openly with one another about your relationship and what you can do to make things more loving and fun again.
好听
你说的话我都相信
说得好听说得甜蜜
你说的每一句我都相信
为了爱情失了聪明
听你的话闭上眼睛
这个梦多美丽让它继续
你说的话总那么好听
你爱不爱我不能确定
也许你只把他当游戏
我却爱得太用力
你说的话我都相信
说得好听说得甜蜜
你说的每一句我都相信
为了爱情失了聪明
听你的话闭上眼睛
这个梦多美丽让它继续
你说的话总那么好听
你爱不爱我不能确定
也许你只把爱当游戏
我却没那么聪明
你说的话总那么好听
你爱不爱我不想确定
我会关掉你送的手机
然后静静不去理
你说的话总那么好听
你爱不爱我不想确定
我会关掉你送的手机
然后静静静静
是再也不去理
Put the Spark Back in Your Relationship
Specially For KEL, PLEASE READ!
Read this article today and thought this is quite true and useful:
Maintaining a healthy and happy relationship is not always an easy feat. Great relationships take work. Even the most compatible of lovebirds will encounter cold spells and roadblocks on their journey to "happily ever after."
Fortunately, there are a few simple things you can do to help ensure the success of your relationship:
Weekly date night: By now, most couples have heard about the "weekly date night" rule. But how many of you have actually taken this advice to heart? Chances are, you tried it once or twice...but then soon abandoned it in the face of kids, errands, and other priorities. Recommit to this relationship rule. You and your spouse need this time to talk, share, and bond. If you are short on time or cash, at least be sure to spend an hour or two together. Take a walk around the neighborhood, or share a few glasses of wine in your backyard. Just be sure to enjoy your spouse without distractions at least once a week.
Vacation, no kids allowed: While weekly date nights are a great way to begin increasing intimacy, women often need more than just a couple of hours a week in order to truly de-stress and focus on their loved one. Since women are multitaskers, it can be hard for them to disengage completely from their many responsibilities. This is where vacations come into play! Recent studies have found that couples who take just one vacation a year see vast improvement in their relationships. Use your vacation to break away from your day-to-day routine. Relax with your partner and revive your relationship. However, there is one caveat to keep in mind: No kids! You need to enjoy quality adult time. Hire a babysitter or call in a favor with the grandparents -- no guilt allowed!
I love you, times four: For most couples, saying the words "I love you" can become routine. Rediscover the importance of these three little words by remembering to say them at least four times a day. And don't just repeat them ad nauseam! Find new, exciting, or even funny ways to spout your love for your partner. Try slipping a note in his lunch bag, tracing it in the bathroom mirror after a hot shower, or even just whispering it to her first thing in the morning!
The ten-second kiss: When was the last time you kissed your spouse? Really, truly, passionately kissed them? Chances are, it's been awhile! However, kissing is a special and important way for you to bond with your partner. Make the time to kiss your partner for 10 seconds every single day. It is bound to feel unnatural at first, but this is just a tool to get you back in the habit of kissing your partner. Before long, you will find that kissing has become a spontaneous and fun part of your relationship again!
Voice three appreciations to each other: What do you appreciate about your partner? Is he a good father? Is she a great listener? Does he always remember to empty the dishwasher? Does she always have a cup of coffee waiting for you in the morning? No matter what you appreciate about your partner, be it large or small, make sure to voice it! I challenge all of my readers: Tell your partner 3 things you appreciate about them. Make sure to be specific - instead of saying, "I appreciate you for being a good father," say "I appreciate when you read to the kids before bed." Your partner will be blown away by your love and approval!
6th Anniversary - 18 Jul 07
I know this post came alittle late but better than never :)
This year we celebrated our 6th Anniversary at Kuishin-bo, Suntec. There was already a long queue when we reached there at 5 PM *faintz* so no choice lor just joined in the queue.
Us while waiting :)
The Authetic Japanese Buffet Restaurant :) Food was good but lots of people. But the staffs there was fast to refill the food which is good unlike other places the staffs are damm slow till I at times became very pek chek :P
Such a long quene.....
Kel playing the DSLite that I bought for him as anniversary gift :)
Busy and More Busy
I am so tired with all the work :( Lots and lots of working coming in for me :(
Just had a talk with my Director/Dean. He hopes that I would stay in the research centre first while they are bringing in a new person, but of course I be on my perm job as soon as the new person come in. So I be super busy cos I be handling and managing the whole research centre :(
Isnt the pic above just looks so pretty and peaceful?
