Quality time or Quantity Time
What is the meaning of Quality time and Quantity Time for a couple? What do you think is more impt?If you ask me this question, my reply will be:
Quality Time - Spending little time yet this little time still allows the couple to understand each other, talking to each other etc.
Quantity Time - Spending time together often like 4-5 times per week?
Which is more impt, to me both are impt for couple but if really got to choose maybe I would choose Quality Time because even if you spend Quantity Time time, you might still not able to get to understand your partner cos there isnt any suitable environment that allows the couple to talk their heart out, everywhere there go might have ppl or things like TV, computer to distrub one of both partner attention. While have Quality time without any distraction will be good even if it is just an hr or 2 which I think maybe I really need in my case.
Reflection on the above
Seriously, I feel in my relation communication is lacking, quantity time is lacking and most impt quality is also lacking.
I think I communicate and spend more quality time with my buddy if want to compare. Take Sharon and Gen for example, maybe I dont meet them often (maybe for Gen) but we communicate alot, and spending quality time together too (even for friends I think this applies too).
Actually got more to write but then I am worry that Kel's ******* might be reading cos Kel got my blog link in his computer or when he uses other com to surf this site so I save the rest as draft. Even this I got to be careful, why cant Kel be more sensetive to all these?
posted by Tritri @ 10:50:00 AM
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